I saw several other men walking up the stairs so I followed them. At the top of the stairs I caught a glimpse of the large main prayer hall.
I could hear a man speaking in German, as if he was delivering a religious talk or lecture. It was religious because in between sentences of German, he would quote the odd Quranic verse or hadith (Prophetic saying) in Arabic.
I took my shoes off and put them on the shelves then entered the carpeted prayer hall. The mosque itself was unremarkable, nothing out of the ordinary.
It was early afternoon. Some men were praying, others were reciting the Quran. A few young men in a darkened corner of the prayer hall were having a nap.

I looked around the hall and then in the direction of the speaker when suddenly I had to double-take. “Did I just see a blonde haired young woman sitting at the front of the mosque?!”
There was not just one head of blonde hair, there were several. Along with a few brown and black and red.

A man, the speaker whom I heard, dressed in a shirt and trousers was standing speaking in fluent German. He must have been in his late 30s.
Around him was sitting, on the carpet of the prayer hall, a large group of teenage boys and girls who must have been around 14 years old. They looked relaxed, as if they felt welcome in this place.
They were mainly white skinned, but a few of other races too. Dressed in jeans, tops, no shoes, they looked like typical teenagers of that age. All were captivated by the smiling, funny, charismatic speaker.
Every few sentences the group of teenagers would burst into laughter at something that the speaker said. One second he was holding up a copy of the Quran, then another second he had a prayer mat in his hand.
It was a strange sight. I had seen schoolchildren come to a mosque before but not in the main prayer hall and definitely not girls without headscarves sitting in the men’s prayer hall.
My first thought was that perhaps they were Muslims, the children of Bosnian refugees. Bosnian Muslims are also white skinned Europeans with blonde hair and blue eyes.
I had certainly seen plenty of them in mosques in Bosnia. But even there, men and women prayed in separate quarters of the mosque.
A few minutes later, the speaker finished what he was saying and invited the group of teenagers to leave.
They all got up, walked to the back of the hall, collected their coats and rucksacks and left the prayer hall, stopping to collect their shoes on their way out.
Moments passed and then I heard one of the most beautiful adhans (Muslim call to prayer) that I had heard in a long time. At the end of the call to prayer a man came out of a room next to the prayer hall.
He was dressed in a long robe and on his head was a red “Azhari” hat characteristic of Muslim scholars who have graduated from Cairo’s Al-Azhar University. He walked to the position of the imam and began to lead the prayer.
He was the same man who had been addressing the group of teenagers a few minutes earlier.
After the prayer finished I made my way to the canteen downstairs where I filled up on a fresh cooked halal meal of lasagne, Turkish pastries and kebabs.
While I was sitting eating alone at a table, I saw the imam walk into the canteen, dressed back in the shirt and trousers I first saw him in.
I went up to him and introduced myself as a visitor from London who was in Hamburg for a few days. I asked the Turkish-German man if he was the main imam at this mosque. “I am,” he replied.
“Who were those children upstairs?” I asked him.
“Germans,” he replied. “They came by appointment from their school. Every day I have a different group, sometimes as young as 4, sometimes teenagers.”
He then took out his phone and began to show me some photographs of German schoolchildren visiting Hamburg Central Mosque.
“You could never do this in Britain,” I told him. “In Britain, most of the mosques are run by traditional people from south Asia, Pakistan, India, etc. In those countries, women don’t exist, and definitely not in mosques.”
“Women are not welcome in most mosques in Britain,” I continued. “And if there is a place for them, it’s a small, smelly, dark room next to the toilets. We are trying to change this.”
I then asked him if his mosque or his community had faced a backlash or any hostility following the then recent Berlin Christmas Market attack.
This was when a Muslim man drove a lorry through a market of men, women and children, killing scores in the process. I wonder if he thought that Allah would be pleased with him if he did this?
My cousin’s daughter and her husband were almost victims of this man. They were in the exact same area a few minutes before the attack.
The imam replied, “No. We have a good relationship with everyone in this community. We did not face a single act of hostility following that attack.”
I asked him whether it was only this mosque that invited Germans to visit. “Most of the large mosques in Germany do this on a daily basis. Our mosques are open to everyone.”
As I walked back to my hotel I reflected on what I had seen. What a genius, I thought to myself.
Instead of recording Prevent-funded rehearsed video adverts that interrupt Islamic YouTube videos and preach against “extremism” and “terrorism” this imam was making a difference in a positive, unapologetic way.
One day, when those teenagers grow up, if they ever read or hear stories that Muslims are bloodthirsty terrorists who hate everything and everyone, maybe they will remember that funny imam who invited them into a mosque and made them laugh?

They might think, “But I’ve met Muslims, I’ve even been inside a mosque and seen how Muslims pray and worship. Thanks to that friendly imam who once invited us into a mosque when we were kids.”
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That’s beautiful brother Babar. Such a refreshing change from the usual stories that one hears.
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Salaams brother story was fascinating but this has been happening in a little town called Bedford in the UK since 2005 .also the mosque is run by Pakistani Google faith in Queens park .
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Excellent I’m glad to hear that. I know it happens in a few mosques in Britain, we need to do more of the same. 🙂
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Beautiful and inspirational.
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Salam Babar,
It’s not on to say ‘in Britain women don’t exist/get dingy rooms next to toilets’.
I think you’re keenly aware that there are many masaajib in Britain that have equally good or better women’s areas.
Characterising all mosques this way – and I doubt there are even very many that just give sisters ‘dingy rooms next to toilets’ – is really unfair. It also plays into and feeds prejudices aganst Muslims.
With respect please be more factual. The Turkish emigres are definitely a lot better about interfaith stuff, but it really is just racist to say ‘South Asians’ don’ t do the same nor Arabs. Certainly the Turkish so it better in Germany, but they have decent numbers in Britain and don’t really do anything there.
I don’t think it helpful to feed anti-Muslim hyperbole like this when the women-at-mosques issue is not a really terrible one and when we ignore real issues, like pedophile Imams and teachers, to exaggerate about lesser issues like these that already have a lot of awareness and movement about them.
I say all this with the greatest respect for you, honestly. I pesonally am in awe of you, brother. And thank you for being such a middle-0f-the-road progressive voice for Western Muslims.
Wasalam.
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Dear Usman,
Thank you for your comments. I said what I said based on my personal visits to mosques around the country and from hearing from the women in my family and from many women I have spoken to directly around the country.
Mosques not being welcoming to women is one of the biggest problems that we face and we can’t blame the Daily Mail or The Sun for it.
In my local mosque, women have a windowless room whose entrance is next to the stinking men’s toilet. The room is so small that once they had to put a coffin in there for a funeral and the coffin wouldn’t fit. Half of it was inside, the other half outside.
I have been speaking to the imams and the local mosque committee about it for years and I am pleased to say that they are trying to make it bigger. Not enough in my opinion but it’s a step in the right direction.
The only mosque in my community open to women is one run by Carribean Indians.
I have never claimed all mosques in Britain are like that but I believe that the majority of mosques in Britain are like that.
Most Muslims in the UK have South Asian roots and most mosques in the UK are run by South Asians.
I don’t believe discussing problems within our community in a (public) forum that is predominantly visited by Muslims, i.e. my blog, feeds into anti-Muslim hyperbole.
I believe that one of the reasons we have these problems is because we consider them taboo to discuss, or pretend they don’t exist.
Admitting a problem exists is the first step to solving it.
People who hate Muslims will continue to hate Muslims whatever we say or write. People who are open-minded will continue to be open-minded whatever we say or write.
The women-at-mosques issue may not be a big deal for me or you because all mosques are open to us but it certainly is an issue to many, many women that I have spoken to, both in my local community and around the country, and those who contact me.
If I am wrong about any of the above, please correct me. 🙂
Babar
P.S. and for the record I have already written an article about paedophile imams, called “Jimmy Saville Imams” – search for it on my blog. 🙂
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It’s not enough to write one article.
Jimmy Saville ‘Imams’ are not the only problem. The biggest issue of child sexual abuse in UK and elsewhere is madaaris – especially boarding school madaaris. Sexual abuse of children is rampant in these places because children are on their own.
Also, it’s not just Imams, who are male. There are plenty of female madrasah teachers who have been sexually abusing female students for decades in Darul Ulooms – they get zero awareness at all because they would be hit by the most shame of all.
Muslim women don’t get a nice space in some masaajid? Ok sure, it sucks and the Unckes who run masjid boards are often pigheaded.
But Muslim children are being molested and even raped every single day in the UK. There is no hotline for them. There is not a SINGLE Muslim organisation that has any outreach for them. There are NO Muslim leaders who are trying to save children form this or at least speak about it.
With respect, Babr, one article means jack all.
Yasir Qadhi wrote a big one years back on MuslimMatters.org. But just ONE – long since buried.
There is way too much attention given to Muslim women’s access in Masaajid when we ignore Muslim kids being abused and raped up and down the UK and Muslim leaders actively ignoring or suppressing reports of the same.
Sorry, but Muslims are absolutely worthless when it comes to defending our kids from pedophiles. Ask me. Not a single Imam, writer, progressive speaker, Uncle, friend or Muslim lawyer helped me expose my abuser. He now lives in Dubai and teaches kids still, probably abusing them just the same.
And here we whinge about women’s areas in Masaajid. I don’t even.
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I agree that sexual abuse in mosques is a problem in this country and more need to speak out about it. I also have friends and know people personally who have been sexually abused by these monsters.
I don’t agree with you that no one is doing anything about this. That is unfair. Many people are doing what they can in their own way.
If my one article is not enough, why don’t you do something about it? Write blogs about your experiences, name and shame the monsters. Set up a hotline or organisation or body – as a victim of this abuse people will listen more to you than to me.
Do it and I will support you.
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Jazax for your support Babar bro, but writing blogs and such won’t do anything.
What does make a difference is trying to rally Muslim leaders to speak about this; what makes a difference is rallying Muslim lawyers to help victims; what makes a difference is trying to get Muslim org support for a hotline for abused Muslim children and students; what makes a difference; what makes a difference is if all this fails, then support from the outside: from police, the courts, non-Muslim orgs helping victims.
None of this has worked. I have been trying for years. At first I was reluctant to use my real name and that if my abusers because of the shame : my own closest friends, all three from the same madrasahs I was abused in, have only cut me off. One is a lawyer who could have helped me but only helps himself, and now ignores me. The others are all very nice and concerned activists on Muslim issues, but when their close friend told them in frustration after my life fell apart, they all distanced and then blanked me.
So now, having lost any care for people calling me filthy, which they still do, I use my real name. I name and shame my abusers : Ismail Memon, headmaster of Darul Uloom al-Madania in Buffalo, NY, and Ahmed Ali Lunat, son of Maulana Adam Lunat, in Leicester, and who now teaches and probably abuses kids in Dubai.
I have tried with friends in Leicester to get Lunat to apologise to my parents and me and return the school fees they paid: a far cry from the 100,000 pound payout I could expect in a court case. None are willing. I told his brother, Imran Lunat. I was Imran’s closest student. When I first confided in him in 2002, he encouraged me to tell him everything and he didn’t care that ‘it’s my brother’. So in 2013, I did. He threatened my family : “Remember you have a family too”, among other veiled threats.
DC Jamie Carr of Liecestershire police was the DC who took my case and was sent my written/video statements. He has steadfastly ignored me since. Apparently he went to interview Lunat under caution, and Lunat then moved to Dubai. I thought he escaped; but it turns out, he still visits Leicester, and has unimpeded access to the UK.
I have done all I can. Any Imam I tell ignores me. Any friend, Muslim professionals or otherwise, have abandoned me when I told them. Any comment I leave on Facebook exposing Ismail Memon and Ahmed Ali Lunat are swiftly deleted – Muslims only care about protecting their leaders and never their victims. My best friend accused me of wanting only money. The police ignore me. I put a video on Youtube exposing the filthy pedo and Lunat did take the time to hire a lawyer when Youtube refused to take it down: Youtube then took it down.
I’ve done all I can. This is my real name. I have named and shamed my abusers many times. There isn’t anyone who has cared one bit, one jot: friends, family, Muslim leaders like Abdul Hakim Murad, Yasir Qadhi, or Hamza Yusuf. Lunat’s youngest brother is the famous Mufti Muhammad al-Kawthari : he has only told me “This has nothing to do with me, please leave me out of it, I have no contact with said individual”. So you can see : even his famous brother, a famous Mufti like him, thinks it OK to say ‘I have nothing to do with him’ rather than take his child-rapist, pedophile brother to task.
I don’t really care for myself. My life has fallen apart and my body is diseased and ravaged from what Lunat did to me. I’ll never marry nor can I have kids as a result. My life, basically, is over. I only want to expose these paedophiles and create resources for Muslim victims and children.
But without support, Babar bro, from any sector of any Muslim community, these thinsga cannot happen. I suppose they could if I had money, but of course I don’t. Even my benefits were cut off last month because ‘actually, PTSD from childhood sexual abuse isn’t good enough a disability, I’m afraid’.
I’ve done everything. Your blog alhamdulillah has readership because, alhamdulillah, you are well-known and people care about what happened to you and supported you. My writing a blog will simply be left in the wilderness and won’t do a thing: especially when I’ve done far more in real life. If you have any ideas of what else cane be done I’m listening, but I am an example of why no Muslim victims come forward.
One footnote: I even tried the media. Only the Guardian responded. Their reporter Randeep Ramesh was initerested, and then when the police lied that I did not give them a statement, and he refused to investigate further, I became upset with him – the Panorama peeps who did Jimmy Saville did not wait for police confirmation. None of the #metoo victims now have even gone to police but the media sure are helping them be heard. Anyways, Randeep Ramesh has steadfastly blanked me since, as have the Gaurdian.
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Wsalams brother Usman,
Very sad to hear your story and it definitely does go on begins closed doors.
You are right, the blind followers will always protect their leaders unfortunately. This is what makes their leaders/Imams more arrogant (nobody can do anything to us).
But something needs to be done, I believe it is never too late.
If you were not happy with the police, you should have gone to IPCC. https://www.ipcc.gov.uk
If you ever do start anything, please let me know. Hotline/website.
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You alone will never be able to fight . I am a non muslim and I feel so helpless of your distress and you have to live with this for your entire life. All i can do is to pray for you to overcome such pain
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Assalaamoalaikum brother Usman
I am very saddened and upset to hear of what you have endured as a child by people ( if you can call them that) you would think would know better.
I am sorry I am not in a position to provide you with actual help but will make dua that Allah swt gives you sabr until the day you are given the justice you deserve.
I understand your frustration as to why not just Muslims but people in general want to complain about menial issues yet forget to discuss and address the real issues that are affecting and destroying our communities.
Brother you are brave for speaking out and I am disgusted at those who call you names for speaking up. This is your test. Please do not give up, persevere and Allah swt will get you through inshaAllah. I know of individuals who have been victims of sexual abuse and SubhanAllah every time I hear such case I wonder what has happened to humanity.
My moto is to be a good Muslim you need to learn to be a good person. That’s why such cases make me question the faith of the predator(s) that commits such heinous crimes.
Don’t give up, carry on my brother and inshaAllah your path will be made easy.
Masalama
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Yeah, you worthless Hijabi MUnafiq, you ‘wondr whay has happened to the world’ but you do fukk all to help such people or expose these criminals?
Hijabi MUnafiq bittch.
And you ;wonder about theor faith’? You fuckking woder, really? You wonder whether faggot pedophiles are Muslims???
Absolutely worthless Hijabi MUnafiq scum.
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Where are your so called family??? Why aren’t they helping!! Probably too busy with their non Muslim boyfriends and dogs to care about their brother’s mental health. You have the audacity to abuse others who OK can’t help but are at least showing you some support. Drop the chip off your shoulder! I know people who have been abused as young as 5 years old by relatives . They have struggled but turned their lives around and now one is a life coach helping other muslimahs that have gone through similar abuse. I don’t see them throwing tantrums and expecting others to help them. They are just getting on with life.
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https://www.dawn.com/news/1344036
I hope this article will give you hope that justice can be served and there is hope.
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Fuck that noise, and don’t bullshit people. There is no hope. Victims of crime must turn to Allah and know He will punish the evil after death, and that’s it. Don’t speak about it to anyone, not non-Muslims obviously, but least of all, the walking human trash Muslims have now become.
I mean look atyou two useless fuckers. You have the name of this criminal adn yet you don’t bother telling anyone about him, blah blah blah. Useless Muslim fuckers.
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Let’s be kinder with our words. Everyone is fighting a battle, not just you brother. People are dying everywhere, let’s be mindful of others before we target random people with our unkind words.
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This is really interesting. My friend has visited this masjid and told me that the men and women pray together. I’ve also read that previously this masjid had a female imam. I would like to visit such a masjid, in’sha’Allah.
As for seeing “white skinned” Muslims, it’s not surprising to me. Many Albanian, Middle Eastern and also Turkish people have white skin/light hair/eyes. You can find them also in Afghanistan/northern Pakistan. We are a diverse bunch. Black, white, brown and everything in between.
As for the man who commented about the abuse he endured, it is truly tragic. I would also suggest to include it in your post about pedo imams..
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Where are your so called family??? Why aren’t they helping!! Probably too busy with their non Muslim boyfriends and dogs to care about their brother’s mental health. You have the audacity to abuse others who OK can’t help but are at least showing you some support. Drop the chip off your shoulder! I know people who have been abused as young as 5 years old by relatives . They have struggled but turned their lives around and now one is a life coach helping other muslimahs that have gone through similar abuse. I don’t see them throwing tantrums and expecting others to help them. They are just getting on with life.
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First off – pretty sad that this brother was abused by so called devout muslim teachers. That’s pretty scary. No one can really understand what he’s going through. However, it’s pretty clear he is mentally unstable because he’s lashing out at innocent people showing him support. They are showing him support – people can only do so much. Saying supportive words is something at least isn’t it? Let’s pray for this brother and all of the youth out there that are going through this and much worse. Again, people can recover and heal from trauma. First, you need to admit you need help then you need to seek assistance and help wherever you can find it. Left untreated, people like this brother cannot cope and they usually end up hurting themselves and people around them. Pretty sad. Let’s pray.
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I totally agree with you here. Sexual abuse is no joke but what can be joked about is how this bro is swearing at people who are showing him support…clearly he needs help. Where is his family and close ones? I also think its funny how hes slamming Babar at the same time while praising him – umm ok. Weird.
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wow
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Great article – for the brother on here that has faced sexual abuse in his past and needs help – feel your pain bro. Hope you get therapy and help and benefits. I did and I am thriving in life. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. I hope you do that for yourself and your future. Also get checked out.
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